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Wednesday, February 23, 2011
#20
Getting kinda tired of people telling me "Just you wait..." if I say I'm tired or something. Yes, I'm aware that I'm going to be tired after the baby is born, the baby probably won't sleep through the night and my life will be forever changed....I just wish people would just let me have what I have now and not compair it to what they have...i guess. Maybe I'll just stop posting stuff, blah. I'm tired and I want to go to sleep...it really has nothing to do with the baby...I've had a rough, emotionally draining day at work...and it's not even close to being done. I feel fine physically, it's just mentally I would like to get away for awhile. blah. Anyway, end of rant, I have some paperwork to do.
Friday, February 18, 2011
#19
Welp, I'm 28wks now and getting pretty excited. I'm at work right now and just thinking about the baby and not really focusing on working. Also, the lure of a three day weekend (and the fact that by boss left early today) makes it difficult for me to focus on work.
I had a doctors appointment today and all is good in the hood. The baby is 'growing nicely' as the Dr. said and I was able to talk with the doctor about some of my thoughts about a natural birth. She did say that there aren't a lot of natural medicine free births at the hospital and she did advocate for at least an epidural for a first birth. She said that I may be able to do it without medication, but not to pigeon hole myself into only doing it that way. She wanted me to remain flexible, which is what I'm planning on anyway, she said that having an epidural can help me with my energy which will make pushing easier. I told her that I plan on being flexible, and if I feel like I can't handle the pain I will get the epidural w/out feeling bad about it. In other news, I'm finally back up to my pre-pregnancy weight. The Doctor is happy with my weight and would like me to continue to gain gradually. She is not worried about me having to have a c-section, which is something I was worried about. The baby decided to kick while she was listening to the heart beat today, it was pretty funny. My blood pressure was actually normal, which was a nice surprise, since it's been borderline high at my last few appointments.
Valentines day was very nice this year. We didn't go out or do anything too fancy. Justin researched a recipe for turkey meatloaf, since I'm not eating red meat, and it was AMAZING! I am so fortunate that Justin loves to cook. He really is just an amazing wonderful guy and I honestly don't know how I got so lucky. Our evening was also fun and kinda hot...that's all I'm gonna say here. :)
I did feel kinda bad that we didn't get to go to Jerianne's wedding. I don't want to go into the drama here, but it sure is some drama. I wish we would have been made aware of when/where it was, but that was her choice not to invite us. I honestly hope they have a beautiful life together and I hope that she will talk to Justin eventually.
Since I'm bouncing around a lot in this entry, I just wanted to throw this out there because I liked this conversation. At Sarah's shower I was sitting with Kindra and Joc, it was good times. At one point we were talking about toys from when we were kids....during this conversation it dawned on me that I really didn't get as many toys as other kids or accessories for my toys, but that didn't seem to bother me as a child. I am actually extremely glad about that now, because not having a barbie car or dream house actually helped me become more creative. Kindra and Joc were surprised to hear that I used shoes as barbie cars, made 'dream homes' out of chairs and sheets, and made a lot of my barbies clothes out of ribbons, shoelaces or scarves. I honestly thought that all kids did these things, but as I look back on it, I do remember going to friends houses and playing with their Barbie mansions. Kindra (or Joc) pointed out that that is probably why I am so Crafty now. I like that I am crafty and that I think outside of the box sometimes. I like that I make things and that I can figure out uses for things that maybe weren't intended for said uses. So, this prompted a conversation with Justin about toys and things...he was pretty much in the same boat as me growing up, had to make the best of what he had. He also liked that it caused him to be more musical since he didn't have the latest video games and whatnot. Though i want to give my child the world, maybe we would be giving them a greater gift of imagination and creativity if we limited the amount of Toys and things that our child has. We have always been on the same boat as far as gigantic themed birthday parties and such for babies (not really something we want to do), but I'm glad we are on the same page about this. I know that some people will not understand when our child only gets one birthday present or one Christmas present, but this is how I grew up and I think it helped me in the long run. NOW, who knows, these things may change and we may become a product of our society and buy into the more is more mentality...I just like that we are talking about these things now. :)
Anyway, I think I need to do some work...then maybe leave work early. :) lol
I had a doctors appointment today and all is good in the hood. The baby is 'growing nicely' as the Dr. said and I was able to talk with the doctor about some of my thoughts about a natural birth. She did say that there aren't a lot of natural medicine free births at the hospital and she did advocate for at least an epidural for a first birth. She said that I may be able to do it without medication, but not to pigeon hole myself into only doing it that way. She wanted me to remain flexible, which is what I'm planning on anyway, she said that having an epidural can help me with my energy which will make pushing easier. I told her that I plan on being flexible, and if I feel like I can't handle the pain I will get the epidural w/out feeling bad about it. In other news, I'm finally back up to my pre-pregnancy weight. The Doctor is happy with my weight and would like me to continue to gain gradually. She is not worried about me having to have a c-section, which is something I was worried about. The baby decided to kick while she was listening to the heart beat today, it was pretty funny. My blood pressure was actually normal, which was a nice surprise, since it's been borderline high at my last few appointments.
Valentines day was very nice this year. We didn't go out or do anything too fancy. Justin researched a recipe for turkey meatloaf, since I'm not eating red meat, and it was AMAZING! I am so fortunate that Justin loves to cook. He really is just an amazing wonderful guy and I honestly don't know how I got so lucky. Our evening was also fun and kinda hot...that's all I'm gonna say here. :)
I did feel kinda bad that we didn't get to go to Jerianne's wedding. I don't want to go into the drama here, but it sure is some drama. I wish we would have been made aware of when/where it was, but that was her choice not to invite us. I honestly hope they have a beautiful life together and I hope that she will talk to Justin eventually.
Since I'm bouncing around a lot in this entry, I just wanted to throw this out there because I liked this conversation. At Sarah's shower I was sitting with Kindra and Joc, it was good times. At one point we were talking about toys from when we were kids....during this conversation it dawned on me that I really didn't get as many toys as other kids or accessories for my toys, but that didn't seem to bother me as a child. I am actually extremely glad about that now, because not having a barbie car or dream house actually helped me become more creative. Kindra and Joc were surprised to hear that I used shoes as barbie cars, made 'dream homes' out of chairs and sheets, and made a lot of my barbies clothes out of ribbons, shoelaces or scarves. I honestly thought that all kids did these things, but as I look back on it, I do remember going to friends houses and playing with their Barbie mansions. Kindra (or Joc) pointed out that that is probably why I am so Crafty now. I like that I am crafty and that I think outside of the box sometimes. I like that I make things and that I can figure out uses for things that maybe weren't intended for said uses. So, this prompted a conversation with Justin about toys and things...he was pretty much in the same boat as me growing up, had to make the best of what he had. He also liked that it caused him to be more musical since he didn't have the latest video games and whatnot. Though i want to give my child the world, maybe we would be giving them a greater gift of imagination and creativity if we limited the amount of Toys and things that our child has. We have always been on the same boat as far as gigantic themed birthday parties and such for babies (not really something we want to do), but I'm glad we are on the same page about this. I know that some people will not understand when our child only gets one birthday present or one Christmas present, but this is how I grew up and I think it helped me in the long run. NOW, who knows, these things may change and we may become a product of our society and buy into the more is more mentality...I just like that we are talking about these things now. :)
Anyway, I think I need to do some work...then maybe leave work early. :) lol
Saturday, February 5, 2011
#18
Holly Crap, it's starting to settle in...only three months left before we have a baby....so freakin' weird. I feel her kick A LOT now and the kicks are getting stronger and stronger. I'm still feeling them low and if higher they are on the sides. Sometimes it feels like she's playing jump rope with the umbilical cord on my bladder. It's good times. I haven't peed my pants yet, and I owe that to my kegel exercises! lol.
I've been thinking a lot about the birthing process. I've been watching a lot of movies and videos of natural births, medication assisted births and c-section births. Ideally, to me, it makes sense to have a natural birth. No meds, no epidural, no c-section...but I also know that all of those are options. And, since I plan on giving birth in a hospital (since I'm not a baller and I can't afford a home birth...and that also seems pretty scary) I wonder if the hospital staff will continually offer me medications or even push to have a c-section to make things easier on them. We plan on having the baby at Long Beach Memorial, and it has been ranked one of the best hospitals to give birth in....but I haven't found out why yet. Is it because of their medical interventions, or is it because they allow simple natural births to occur? I don't know, and I plan on asking all of the fun questions when we go for the Hospital Tour early next month. The fun questions are, 1) What is their c-section rate, planned and unplanned? 2) What is their episiotomy rate? 3) Are their nurses comfortable with a natural birth? 4) etc, etc, etc?
Now, I'm not going to be totally rigid in my birth plan, I just want to know the possibilities so that I can prepare myself. Part of preparing myself is also preparing Justin. He HATES hospitals and I worry that he's going to pass out or just die right there from an anxiety attack. Actually, I'm pretty sure he's going to be fine and probably much more supportive and able than even he thinks he can be in this situation. I know he's going to have a hard time seeing me in pain, so I've been trying to desensitize him lately watching birth shows like "one born every min." It's an interesting show and I hope he'll continue to watch it with me. Pretty much the only thing he can't handle is watching them do the epidural...which is okay with me, because I really don't want one and if I do end up getting one he won't have to sit there and watch it.
Anyway, I've also been reading about doula's and again, if money wasn't an issue, I would probably be interviewing doula's right now. What I like about doula's is that they can be there for the ENTIRE labor and birth and help you figure out what is best for your unique body and help advocate to the nurses and doctors. I have read that you can get a no cost/low cost doula by looking into getting a Doula in Training. I haven't decided if I want to start calling around yet to explore options in my area. I'm just not sure if it's THAT important to me, but it might be....so, we shall see.
In other news, work has been interesting lately. I only have four clients right now because I graduated and transferred over half of my case load after the holidays. I really only see two of my clients because the other two are refusing services and their cases will close soon. I'm not getting more clients, because it is just unethical to begin with a client for three months (just enough time to build rapport) then take off for three months. So, I've been in paperwork land lately. I've taken on a lot of paperwork to help my co-workers who are swamped. I spend a lot more time in the office, which is good and bad. It's good because I don't have to drive a lot, but will end up being bad when I do my expense report...lol, I used to get about $200+ at the end of every month for my driving expenses, last month it was just over $100 and this month it will be much less I'm sure. Now, i guess it will all even out because I'm really not getting gas as much and not spending as much with my clients. SO yeah, paperwork is great! lol...I keep telling myself that. :)
Okay, the baby is kicking hard and letting me know it's time to eat...she's like a little alarm clock for food time. ;) Yay!
I've been thinking a lot about the birthing process. I've been watching a lot of movies and videos of natural births, medication assisted births and c-section births. Ideally, to me, it makes sense to have a natural birth. No meds, no epidural, no c-section...but I also know that all of those are options. And, since I plan on giving birth in a hospital (since I'm not a baller and I can't afford a home birth...and that also seems pretty scary) I wonder if the hospital staff will continually offer me medications or even push to have a c-section to make things easier on them. We plan on having the baby at Long Beach Memorial, and it has been ranked one of the best hospitals to give birth in....but I haven't found out why yet. Is it because of their medical interventions, or is it because they allow simple natural births to occur? I don't know, and I plan on asking all of the fun questions when we go for the Hospital Tour early next month. The fun questions are, 1) What is their c-section rate, planned and unplanned? 2) What is their episiotomy rate? 3) Are their nurses comfortable with a natural birth? 4) etc, etc, etc?
Now, I'm not going to be totally rigid in my birth plan, I just want to know the possibilities so that I can prepare myself. Part of preparing myself is also preparing Justin. He HATES hospitals and I worry that he's going to pass out or just die right there from an anxiety attack. Actually, I'm pretty sure he's going to be fine and probably much more supportive and able than even he thinks he can be in this situation. I know he's going to have a hard time seeing me in pain, so I've been trying to desensitize him lately watching birth shows like "one born every min." It's an interesting show and I hope he'll continue to watch it with me. Pretty much the only thing he can't handle is watching them do the epidural...which is okay with me, because I really don't want one and if I do end up getting one he won't have to sit there and watch it.
Anyway, I've also been reading about doula's and again, if money wasn't an issue, I would probably be interviewing doula's right now. What I like about doula's is that they can be there for the ENTIRE labor and birth and help you figure out what is best for your unique body and help advocate to the nurses and doctors. I have read that you can get a no cost/low cost doula by looking into getting a Doula in Training. I haven't decided if I want to start calling around yet to explore options in my area. I'm just not sure if it's THAT important to me, but it might be....so, we shall see.
In other news, work has been interesting lately. I only have four clients right now because I graduated and transferred over half of my case load after the holidays. I really only see two of my clients because the other two are refusing services and their cases will close soon. I'm not getting more clients, because it is just unethical to begin with a client for three months (just enough time to build rapport) then take off for three months. So, I've been in paperwork land lately. I've taken on a lot of paperwork to help my co-workers who are swamped. I spend a lot more time in the office, which is good and bad. It's good because I don't have to drive a lot, but will end up being bad when I do my expense report...lol, I used to get about $200+ at the end of every month for my driving expenses, last month it was just over $100 and this month it will be much less I'm sure. Now, i guess it will all even out because I'm really not getting gas as much and not spending as much with my clients. SO yeah, paperwork is great! lol...I keep telling myself that. :)
Okay, the baby is kicking hard and letting me know it's time to eat...she's like a little alarm clock for food time. ;) Yay!
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